The Bartending Experience - New Ways to Say the Same Old Thing

Bartenders find themselves in the same customerand you will realize that your customers will treat you
service situations time and time again. While bartendingdifferently. You will be projecting a more mature,
experience is the only way to develop confidence andprofessional image.
presence behind the bar, there are some shortcuts forWhen your customers view you as a professional, not
the new bartender. These sayings can be used toonly will your tips increase but so will the
dramatically increase your professional image and youracknowledgements of a job well done. I like to call
tips.these acknowledgments, "verbal gratuities." Your
The Opencustomer will give you a compliment. It is now your job
When customers approach your bar, please do notto turn that verbal gratuity into an actual monetary
use the term "you guys." As a manager and agratuity. One easy way to ruin a verbal gratuity is to
customer nothing drives me crazier than the phrasesay "No Problem." Again the connotation is negative
"Hi, how are you guys doing tonight?" It's too informaland off putting. Of course it wasn't a problem, it was
and comes off not only relaxed, but not smart. (I'myour job. Some in the service industry have realized
being kind here.)how negative "No Problem" can sound and have
Try this new phrase instead. "Hi, ladies and gentlemen,begun using the correct "You Welcome." While this
what can I do for you this evening?" The phrasesphrase is acceptable, remember that we are trying to
"ladies", "gentlemen" and "ladies and gentlemen,"turn that verbal tip into a monetary one and now is not
depending on the make up of the group, are a 1000%the time to shortchange your customer. Answer with
improvement on "you guys." Also, instead of askinga simple "My Pleasure."
how they are doing you are asking what you can doWhen you first start to use "My Pleasure" it may feel
for them. This is more to the point and will limit thea little cheesy but the more you do it, the better it feels.
uncomfortable silences when someone tells you justAlternately use "Absolutely, anytime" if it helps you to
how bad there day has been. You don't actually wantget comfortable with "my pleasure." I have witnessed
to know how they are doing, so please don't ask.tips skyrocket in restaurants and bars when the staff
The Apologymakes a commitment to using the term "my pleasure."
Often in the bar industry a customer has to waitThink about how simple it is to replace two words and
before you can properly give them service. Alwaysuse "my pleasure" instead. When we implemented this
acknowledge a customer as quickly as possible. Aat a private club where I worked, tips increased 120%
simple hello or "one moment please" will suffice but goand stayed at the level. It wasn't a short term spike
out of your way to let them know that you are awarejust when we started. It was permanent. I was blown
that they are waiting. When it becomes their turn foraway. I know the exact number of the increase
service do not use the standard "Sorry to keep youbecause all tips were signed onto the checks at this
waiting." It denotes that it is your fault and putsprivate club, no cash. I was in charge of distributing the
customers in a negative state of mind. Instead try totips. It was unbelievable.
use the phrase "Thank you for your patience, whatIn conclusion, the simple act of changing a few phrases
can I do for you?" Instead of apologizing for somethingcan dramatically increase your tips. Try these new
that isn't your fault you thank the customer for waiting.ways to say the same old thing. If you are a new
The term "thank you" as opposed to "sorry" is muchbartender these simple tips will greatly improve your
more positive and will help to put the customer in aimage behind the bar. Think of some other phrases
positive frame of mind. This simple and subtle changeyou use on a daily, if not hourly basis. Could you be
will give you more confidence and presence behind thesaying these better too?
bar. It will help to improve the overall "feel" andNot only will your tips and image improve but you will
atmosphere at your bar. People will know they arealso have a better bartending experience. Bartending is
dealing with a professional and will tip accordingly.always more fun when the customers respect you,
Acknowledging Thanksgive you compliments and tip well. You can achieve all
When you speak in the above manner your arethree of these goals by simply changing your
showing your patrons the utmost respect. It takesvocabulary. Good Luck.
giving respect in order to get it back. Speak this way